Private pay
Many families pay for care with private funds: personal savings, pension payments, retirement accounts, or a combination of these and family contributions.
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Compare communities across 114 cities and 10 counties. Virginia averages $6,945 per month for assisted living, and BoomersHub advisors help you shortlist, confirm pricing, and book tours for free.
Virginia has a mild four-season climate and draws retirees for family-close DC-area living with strong Richmond and Norfolk-area medical hubs plus quieter mountain options. Communities cluster across Virginia Beach, Richmond, Arlington, and Norfolk, from small residential care homes to full-campus senior-living properties. This guide walks through what assisted living in Virginia costs, how families pay for it, the state's licensing rules, and how to shortlist communities without doing the legwork alone.
Start with a major metro, or jump straight to your town in the A–Z directory. Every link opens that city's assisted living options.
The average cost of assisted living in Virginia is $6,945 per month. Your actual rate depends on the city, apartment size, and level of care, which is what our advisors confirm for you before you tour.
State averages. Individual community rates vary by city, floor plan, and care level.
Average monthly cost in Virginia by care type. Tap any card to explore that care type across the state.
$6,945/mo
Housing, meals, and daily-living support
$5,556/mo
$8,681/mo
$11,680/mo
$390/mo
Virginia state averages. Bars are scaled to the highest cost shown.
Most Virginia families combine two or three of these. An advisor walks through which apply to your situation.
Many families pay for care with private funds: personal savings, pension payments, retirement accounts, or a combination of these and family contributions.
Selling a parent's home can help finance assisted living, especially once the home is no longer occupied. Proceeds often fund several years of care.
Homeowners aged 62+ can convert part of their home equity into cash while retaining ownership, with no loan payments due while living in the home. A spouse may remain in the home while proceeds help pay for a partner's care.
LTC policies typically begin paying out when the policyholder needs help with two or more activities of daily living, such as bathing, dressing, or eating. Check the policy's elimination period and daily benefit before counting on it.
Veterans with at least 90 days of active duty (including one day during wartime) may qualify for VA benefits such as Aid & Attendance, which can add a monthly amount on top of a VA pension.
Virginia Medicaid's Veterans Administration (VA) Centers in Virginia program helps eligible lower-income seniors with assisted living costs in participating communities. Waivers typically do not cover room and board.
Every assisted living community in Virginia is licensed and inspected by Virginia's state licensing authority. Communities must meet standards for staffing, caregiver training, medication administration, and building safety, with managers and staff completing continuing in-service training each year.
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Alexandria Division of Aging & Adult Services
Virginia Area Agencies on Aging
Appalachian Agency for Senior Citizens, Inc.
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Arlington Agency on Aging
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Bay Aging
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Central Virginia Alliance for Community Living, Inc. (PSA 11)
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Crater District Area Agency On Aging
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District Three Governmental Cooperative
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Eastern Shore Area Agency on Aging- Community Action Agency, Inc.
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Fairfax Area Agency on Aging
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Jefferson Area Board for Aging
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Lake Country Area Agency on Aging
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Local Office on Aging, Inc.
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Loudoun County Area Agency on Aging
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Mountain Empire Older Citizens, Inc.
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New River Valley Agency on Aging
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Peninsula Agency on Aging, Inc.
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Piedmont Senior Resources Area Agency on Aging, Inc.
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Prince William Area Agency on Aging
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Rappahannock Area Agency on Aging, Inc.
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Rappahannock-Rapidan Community Services Board
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Senior Connections- Capital Area Agency on Aging, Inc.
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Senior Services of Southeastern Virginia
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Shenandoah Area Agency on Aging, Inc.
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Southern Area Agency on Aging
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Valley Program for Aging Services, Inc.
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The Virginia median for assisted living sits near the national average, driven by a wide range from expensive DC-corridor communities to lower-cost southwestern-Virginia towns. Where a state lands depends on labour costs, cost of living, and the mix of urban vs rural communities. Your actual rate depends on the city, apartment size, and level of care — an advisor confirms current pricing for any community you're considering, free.
Searching Virginia alone is overwhelming. Our advisors know the assisted living communities, the real pricing, and the availability across Virginia, and they do the legwork for you.
Guides written for families starting the search, from first conversations to moving day.
Start with an honest family conversation and a needs assessment from their physician. Tour two or three Virginia communities together, ask about care levels and pricing, then complete the community's health assessment and residency agreement. A BoomersHub advisor can shortlist communities, confirm pricing, and schedule tours for free.
Pet-friendly Assisted Living communities welcome residents' cats, small dogs, or other companion animals, usually with size limits, a pet deposit, and the expectation that the resident or family can care for the pet. Ask each Virginia community for its written pet policy before move-in.
Over 30,000 licensed Assisted Living communities across the United States, housing more than 800,000 residents (AHCA / NCAL industry data). Ranges from large resort-style campuses to small residential care homes.
Large states lead the count: California, Florida, and Texas consistently rank among the top states for the number of licensed Assisted Living communities.
Southern and Midwestern states consistently rank among the most affordable for Assisted Living — Mississippi, Alabama, Arkansas, North Dakota, and South Dakota all sit well below the national median. New England, the West Coast, and Alaska are the expensive end.
The average Assisted Living resident is in their mid-80s. A typical resident needs help with 2 or 3 daily activities — bathing, dressing, medication management. Many move in after living alone became difficult rather than after a single medical event.
Many Virginia communities allow pets — most commonly cats and small dogs, subject to the community's pet policy. Expect size or breed limits, a pet deposit, and a check that the resident or family can handle daily pet care.
Usually not. The base monthly rate typically covers housing, meals, housekeeping, activities, and help with daily activities. Medical services (doctor visits, therapy, medications) are billed separately, often through Medicare or private insurance. Ask each community exactly where its rate ends and medical billing begins.
Yes. Family and friends are welcome at Virginia Assisted Living communities, subject to reasonable visiting hours and sign-in policies. Many communities also host family dinners, holiday events, and overnight guest options.
Partially. Virginia Medicaid programs (HCBS waivers) can cover personal-care services in participating Assisted Living facilities for eligible lower-income seniors. Waivers do not pay for room and board, and not every community participates, so confirm before touring.
Morningside House has been a part of my family's life for many years. We are very fortunate to have such an amazing community in Leesburg. Morningside House is cozy and easy to use. It feels like a private residence, but better. Every day is special because the staff strive to make every day memorable for residents. They offer a variety of activities to suit all interests, including chef-inspired meals and a full calendar that includes activities to keep everyone entertained. Danielle, our Concierge, holds a special place within our hearts. She is truly a treasure. Morningside House did everything it could to ensure that residents were safe and comfortable during the COVID-19 pandemic. It's a great relief to know that our loved ones are taken care of 24 hours a day. We love our Morningside House family!
Unknown · Morningside House Of Leesburg · Leesburg
The Crossings at Bon Air are by far the best community in the Richmond Area. The majority of the management team is long-standing there. They are very familiar with how to meet the needs of residents. It is clean, and the residents are very friendly.
Unknown · The Crossings At Bon Air · Richmond
We couldn't have been happier to place our loved one in an assisted living facility for the first time. My mom has been in the facility for a year now and has settled well. She loves her new place. It can only get better. They have been great leaders over the last year. It makes me happy to see people who are so talented. The staff are positive and compassionate towards residents. But, I'm already seeing the culture change in a positive way. Today's staff was actually humming as they worked. It's always a positive sign. Very familiar with the facility's dynamics and I believe we will all be happier because of it. Bravo!
Unknown · Commonwealth Senior Living At Hampton · Hampton
Brookdale is a wonderful place and the perfect home for my cousin. Yes, Brookdale is amazing! The grounds, food, transportation, and third-party support (beauty/barber service, Omnicare prescriptions, Genesis Therapy, and many others) are all excellent. Brookdale Lake Ridge's greatest asset is its caring staff, which includes Sales, Finance, Nursing, Operations and Concierge AZ. My cousin and his family are extremely grateful for the small things they did to help them settle in. This included hooking up the TV and wall mount into the free cable. They also provided wifi so he could play his favorite games, talk about Marvel, and helping him with his cataract surgery appointments. We want to say a big THANK YOU for "these angels walking among us", their kindnesses and generosity. Brookdale Lake Ridge is a great place to look for assisted living if your loved one needs it.
Unknown · Brookdale Lake Ridge · Woodbridge
Since my mother moved into Waltonwood Assisted Living nearly two years ago, she has received compassionate, kind, and patient care. Staff at all levels provided excellent care and attention, as well as responding promptly to any concerns that I had regarding my mom's condition. My mom can thrive and live in Waltonwood because it is a safe, secure, and healthy environment. The Waltonwood staff has taken the time to get to know my mom. It's been a great experience. Being close to Waltonwood allowed me to visit my mother regularly to confirm what I'm expressing. My mom loves the company of her friends, their evening music concerts and visits from pets. Waltonwood Retirement Community is a great place to retire for families who want a friendly, well-run environment for their loved ones.
Unknown · Waltonwood at Ashburn · Ashburn
CSL Georgian Manor was chosen by our mother to continue assisted living after she had been discharged from Autumn Care Rehab. We were impressed by the cleanliness and absence of odors of the building, as well the quality of care provided to each resident. It is beautifully decorated. Mom has been receiving the best care since she moved in. All staff are friendly to residents and visitors. They offer activities every day and encourage participation. This facility has been highly praised by all mom's visitors. Georgian Manor is a great place to find assistance for someone you love.
Unknown · Commonwealth Senior Living At Georgian Manor · Chesapeake
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